3 things to do right now if you think leaving him was a mistake

July 7, 2011

You finally broke things off and now you can’t stop noticing that nagging feeling that something doesn’t feel right. You wonder if you made the biggest mistake of your life, and you’re even contemplating if you should get back together. But should you? You spent weeks, maybe month agonizing over this decision, and it seemed […]

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Video interview with Sharon Bailey: What Kind of Women are in Emotionally Abusive Relationships?

April 10, 2011

Are you wondering if you could be in an emotionally abusive relationship? Watch my interview with Sharon Bailey, who has ten years of coaching experience working with emotionally abused women on YouArePowerfulNow.com. In the video, Sharon explains what kind of women find themselves in emotionally abusive relationships. Spoiler: It’s not what you think!

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Why the reason you got into your relationship is the key to deciding if you should break up

August 20, 2010

Ask yourself these three questions: 1. Why did you get into your relationship? 2. Why did you choose this partner? 3. What state were you in when you did it? These questions are massively important, and this subject is something few people ever take the time to look at when making a decision whether or […]

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Trying to decide if you should get back together? Don’t let him make the decision for you.

August 20, 2010

Watch out. When you decide to take space and move on, chances are, he will resist. After all, if he didn’t want you around at all, you wouldn’t be in this situation. Because making a conscious, well thought out decision to break up requires that you are centered in yourself, in touch with yourself, and […]

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How to give yourself the best advice you’ve ever gotten

August 18, 2010

One great way to make a decision is to pretend that you are giving advice to a friend. For some reason, dealing with a problem that is outside of you is much easier than one you’re personally wrestling with. How many times have you heard friends describe their issue, and felt like you knew exactly […]

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The number one secret to making a great decision

August 17, 2010

Have you ever found yourself animatedly telling a friend about your situation, going through a range of emotions, and rehashing the same points for hours? Talking in circles is something that happens to us all, but it is never a productive use of our time. Why is this? When we look to another to solve […]

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The most important question to ask yourself before leaving him

August 16, 2010

This piece is inspired by one of my very favorite self development resources, Byron Katie’s brilliant tool set, The Work. The Work has us ask 4 questions about whatever judgment we’re making about anyone or anything. After answering the four questions, in the final step of The Work, we flip our judgment around and apply […]

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How to get what you really want when you wonder if he loves you enough

August 11, 2010

Often times we get stuck in an inquiry about whether or not our man loves us. If he would just love us more, we think, our relationship would be great, or we could get back together. Or, if he would just change and do that thing we asked him to do, things would be so […]

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Alexis Martin Neely’s take on how you know it’s time to leave

August 11, 2010

Alexis Martin Neely breaks down the ways she knows it’s time to leave a job, a relationship or a marriage. Each of the five reasons is a gem and has us ask questions such as whether it’s more painful to stay than to go, if we’re trying to make someone else happy or feel guilty […]

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Addicted to Love: Mastin Kipp gets emotionally sober

July 29, 2010

Read about what happens when one man undergoes a 30 day “love cleanse,” finally recognizes and confronts his addiction to love, and stops giving away his power to the women he dates. An inspiring and enlightening tale from Mastin Kipp’s blog on The Huffington Post: Addicted to Love: Part 1 Addicted to Love: Part 2

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