…Are you in an on-again-off-again relationship and finding yourself constantly asking friends for advice about whether to break up with him for good, or try harder to make the relationship work?

…Are you worried that you’re making a big mistake by wasting your time with a man who isn’t “the one?”

…Does it seem like you feel differently about the situation from day to day, and that it’s impossible to make a decision you’ll stick with?

…Do you feel sad, drained, and a little hopeless because you don’t know what to do?

…Are you scared to break up with him because you don’t know what you’re going to do about your future – where to live, where to work, who to spend time with?

…Are you spending a lot of time looking at his Facebook profile, or longingly gazing at your ex’s profile pictures?

…Do you secretly worry that none of your friends like or approve of your man, or the fact that you got back together again?

If so, you’ve come to the right place. I recommend you begin here.